Is it over?

[Pinkroses27]

Me n my BF have been together for 6 years. We’ve never broken up for more than a week or two. This year we got into a fight and broke up. Normally we would just go back to normal after we cooled off. It’s been a couple months and this time, he says that he wants to stay broken up and he doesn’t know for how long or if ever. But we still talk everyday and have sex like once or twice a week. He claims it’s not another woman and he doesn’t want a gf at all. He’s trying to better himself. And says he would tell me if he was to do anything with anyone else but it’s not like that. Should I try to hold on or just let it go?

Get rid of him he's using you

He is playing you for an utter fool. You are nothing more than an easy shag and he has been crystal clear about it. Stop being a mug and raise your standards.

He's got the best of both world now, sex on tap, emotional support with the phone calls, no need to do any bf stuff because you aren't a couple. Either cut contact or get back together, but not this hybrid because you will lose self esteem.

Thanks. Guess I just needed to hear it from someone else

Even if there isn’t another woman now soon there will be. But you are “not in a relationship” so you won’t be able to complain... Fairly classic. Using you until something new comes along. This will only end one way and if you can be the one who shuts it down you will feel a whole lot better about it later

Been in this is exact situation myself. We didn't get back together and I ended up very hurt because I found out he slept with someone else the day before sleeping with me. I saw the scratches on his back. 🤢

You can't get over him while you're under him.

Cut contact, move on and find someone who can't get enough of you