I’m married to a man with anger issues. He just hit his toe and most would hop around swear. He picks up the offending chair and launched it in the garden all in front of the kids.
This isn’t the first time he done something like this. He was annoyed by teenagers doing wheelies on the cycle path next to us and jumps towards them causing the kid to wobble. I thought he going to hit this kid.
He isn’t great with our like our kids either. Tells the frequently that they are annoying and he doesn’t want to be a parent as he can’t do what he wants. Emotional damage I suppose.
When we were are on are own he moans about how life would be if I hadn’t made him have kids. We would be able to travel and go places without working around them. He constantly moans about clutter and mess. I do clean, around my work, kid care and him working nights.
My family are saying it’s not healthy the kids being in an environment like this. I know it’s not and I talk to him but within 2 or 3 days we are back to his normal self. He said it was his job so changed it but to be honest he got worse. Today’s outburst he can’t see what he has done wrong.
What should I do?