OLD.... Would you message?

[inmyshoos]

So been speaking to someone, few messages over 10 days. He has said a few times he'd be up for a SD walk to meet at some point, has been flirty.

We live in the same small town which feels a bit weird, almost less private. For that reason I don't want to chase him..

So last message he said definitely up for meeting. I messaged twice in response, nothing unusual just chit chat and asking what he was planning that day etc... Nothing from him since.

Would you give it a week and send a message of some sort or just assume not interested

I'd assume he'd lost interest.

Did you reply about meeting up for the walk or did you reply with chit chat ignoring his idea of meeting for a SD walk?

If I was the last to message I would wait for them to carry on the conversation, if they don't then I assume they aren't really interested and leave it at that. Plenty of people say they like to meet but more out of politeness sometimes. Keep plenty of options open op.

Did you say you'd like to meet? If he's asked a few times and you haven't replied he may think you're not interested?

It would be his 'turn' to message, his responsibility to keep it going etc if you see what I mean.

On to the next. Maybe he'll message at a later date, but if so I'd want some major reason for his non-reply so long, like a bereavement or hospitalization or something.

Don't message. Keep talking to other guys.

Do not message again. He received the last two, desperation is a turn-off. Now he'll either respond or you ended it on a dignified note.

OK so I'd said think we would be OK to meet for sd walk now and he responded yes I'm definitely up for that. Then flirted a bit....said I look fit and in good shape, nice bum on my bike..
I responded answering his question about what I was up to that day but no response... I wasn't up to any weird...