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Thoughts about OM

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ClosureTonight · 02/06/2020 20:44

A few of years ago I did something awful... I cheated on my DH. My behaviour was totally out of character for me and I have absolutely no idea now what I was thinking. It's almost like it wasn't me, but it was. I'm not going to excuse what I did or why and I still feel guilty about the whole situation. I feel so guilty to both my DH but also the OM. I lied to them both. I made promises I couldn't keep and just generally behaved appallingly. My DH forgave me and we moved on with our lives. Recently, though, I cannot get the situation out of my head and how it all ended and how I never got to say I'm sorry. I'm not going to do anything about it but I just need to let it out I guess.

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Crystalspider · 02/06/2020 21:12

Chances are that that after a few years the OM has gotten on with his life and hopefully met a good woman by now. There's not much you can do now but be grateful your DH forgave you and build on making your relationship happy.

Ohnoherewego62 · 02/06/2020 21:16

Did your DH find out or did you tell him? I think that's a key part in your story.

What do you feel guilt over? Was OM aware you were married?

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