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Anxious about dds birthday tomo and husband coming over when he isn’t allowed..aghhhh

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Fightingback16 · 02/06/2020 10:49

So it’s my daughters birthday tomo.
For those who know me you know he isn’t allowed contact. He requested to come and spend the day with her tomo after not seeing her since Dec. I said no. He knows that in order to see her he needs to make a court application. I said in another post, he knows he can’t come, he now knows I’ve said no to the birthday but he has gone and bought a massive gift. Size wise the box is the size of fridge freezer. There has been no follow up to how the gift will get to my house without him bringing it.

I’ve bought her a bike so we will be in the street playing. He will come, I know it and we will be right there.

I’m getting anxious now, I know about calling the police but the thought of him coming is ruing my day today and it will tomo. How can I get over these feelings? I don’t want dd to be in the street and it all goes bad and in don’t want to spend all day tomo anxious waiting Sad

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AnneLovesGilbert · 02/06/2020 10:52

Can you avoid playing in the street and take her and her new bike to a park nearby instead?

Fightingback16 · 02/06/2020 10:57

Yes I can take her somewhere else. But we are for the large about of the day gonna be at home. We have family who are all vulnerable so can’t go. Some will pop over and see her in the front garden.

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