I'm hoping someone can shed some on this because I'm unsure what to do. I dont even know how I feel. Sat here with tears in my eyes just thinking about it.
So, me and my OH have been together since October last year things were OK I met him while he was living with a friend. His ex and kids kept the house they shared. February this year, his friend said he couldn't stay there anymore, it just wasn't working out. He had nowhere else to go, living with me wasn't an option as too soon and there's kids involved on both sides so he decides to move back in with the ex and kids. Friends basis, there for the kids. We had a short break, things on both sides we needed to deal with. After a time we loved and missed eachother that much that we got back together. He hated not being with me.
I trust him when he says that he's not interested in her in that way anymore, he was the one who ended the relationship beginning of 2019. So that's not the issue here. His ex knows about me, knows were together. She seems to be fine with it from what he's said.
Honestly, I'm feeling pushed out. I feel like I've been put in a box and he will only bring me out when he's got time for me. He says its all he can do at the moment as when his ex knows he's seeing me she gets funny about it. Fair enough, they've got kids together, he needs to be spending time with his kids. But this is at a risk of pushing me away. Which honestly at the minute, I dont think I need the stress of it.
I love him to bits, I really do and I'm happy were together, I just hate the situation we're in. We're both saving up so we can get a place of our own. Just at the minute I feel like absolute shit and its doing my fucking head in!
Anyone been here before? I don't know what to do 😢