Were you more cautious getting again after divorce?

[Longlostson1]

Am just thinking about this, it’s not on the cards for me yet but would love to marry again one day. Having just gone through divorce where I married on a whim (met, engaged and married within 9 months) can’t help thinking I would be much more careful next time, particularly as I realise the legal implications of marriage are so significant, I didn’t really think about it first time around.

The title was meant to say married again!

I can't answer regarding marriage, but I did go into a relationship after marriage, and that didn't go too well. At first I thought I was on excessive high alert for red flags being completely blind to them in my marriage. It turns out they were actual red flags although it took me a little longer to see them than I had hoped.

I would say though, that if you have just been through a divorce, maybe put thought of marrying again to the background for now. First, heal.