Hi everyone! Please could you give me some advice.... I work as a professional frontline keyworker and I'm coming up for retirement age. Given the situation I thought that this is a good opportunity to retire. DH works from home fairly high salary but my pension is rather small as kids and part time for most of my career. So I said to DH can we discuss this and talk about finances. Big kick off. Basically saying he cant afford to give me any money.....haven't asked.
Also he due an inheritance in a few years and he said he might not get any of it...care home etc but I'm sure he would.
Also said we would not be able to do any work on house etc. Said he didn't want a joint account as I wouldn't change. Not sure what this means as I've never asked him for money.
Lockdown has been ok but he does tend to live in his bubble and he's very quiet. Maybe quietly resentful but doesn't communicate.
Just thought he might be more thoughtful as to the situation. I could always go back after all this blows over.
Feel stuck between staying in a job in which Im frightened or put up with this unkindness.