Hi
I really need advice on how to improve my confidence and walk away from this man.
I am a divorced mum of two, I have been in this relationship for 4 years pretty much after my marriage breakup.
This guy was wonderful, everything I wanted.
Soon I noticed he would always mention pretty girls, for obscure reasons just to drop them in the conversation.
I then discovered weird porn on his phone he denied it.
He has recently become quick tempered and a woman from his running club, began messaging him a year ago. Just links to races etc but still made me uncomfortable.
I have since realised he messaged her too, a very praising message and quite frankly flirty.he swore it was a one way street and that I should trust him.
I know this sounds like I am an obsessive jealous person but i wasnt. I am now though, constantly looking for signs he has been watching porn or in contact with this woman.
I feel awful:(