Am I right to be angry at my partner?

[TTlover]

Hi all. Do I have a right to be angry with my partner here...

I went out for a run for 30 mins and he was at home looking after our 12 week old puppy. He was cleaning the carpet and she jumped up and bit him on the lip (playfully). I came back to my clothes horse mangled and wonky on the floor and he told me he got angry and pushed on it.

I’m really cross with him and said that it is unacceptable. His response is that I’m being over dramatic. I don’t expect to go out for half an hour and see my property wrecked because he can’t control his anger. I’m so cross. What do you all think?

What a wanker!

It's disturbing and not normal to break a thing in anger, especially not at a puppy or something minor like that. Fair enough if he lived alone and it was something he solely owned.

Then to say that your reaction was wrong and accuse you of playing the victim!

He's a wanker and kind of scary. I find a temper frightening and would be planning to leave with as little aggro as possible.