Can anyone explain what the is wrong with my DP? We’ve been together 2 and half years and love him to bits etc but there’s one thing we fight about and it’s always him putting my 2 DDs down. They’re older 21 and 24 and live with me at home and he has his place with his 9 year old son he has shared custody of. My girls aren’t close to him and we all keep things apart which is hard for me. He seems to get jealous if i mention them and it really bugs me so badly we end up arguing. He literally puts them down to my face and it makes me hate him so much. Why does he do it? It’s like because they’re not friendly towards him, he takes offence and is nasty about them . For instance , my eldest got her final uni grade today 2.1 and i was so pleased and i told him and all he said was what’s the point , she needs to get to work (even though she has a job lined up with the police) He can’t understand my love for them and it’s always about his son . Just because mine are older, he thinks you just let them go and forget them and because they still live with me etc he thinks i mollycoddle them etc. We get on so well other than when anything comes up about my girls .