Not sure what to do

[Inexperiencedchick]

Good day everyone.

So I’m dating a guy for a while, we don’t live together. Met up recently and were in the park together, with social distancing.
He was desperate to meet, on the day we met he was checking other women/girls in the park. I did mention, his reply was: “you can look but not touch anyway”
Then in the middle of the walk he says he loves me as we went to the water side and the scenery was beautiful. But then started to discuss his ex, how he brought her there and how she was loving and all that. My heart sank that moment.
Yesterday I texted him in the evening that I don’t want to date him anymore. And in tears today since early morning.
I don’t know what is happing but my gut tells me it is so wrong that you want to see a person but examine other females at the same time; or you say you love her but talk abt your ex at the same time.
He did try and drove an hour to come and see me, but all this nonsense is actually making me insecure and uncomfortable.
I don’t understand him...

You deserve better than this. Walk away and don’t look back.

In other aspects he is nice, but then this kind of things come out and I am not bale and willing to handle this anymore...
it’s breaking my heart that I won’t see him again but I did ask him in the past not to talk abt his exes, he stopped for a while and now but to this again. And I discovered that he doesn’t remember what I wore on our first day. But he remember my birth marks on my body, thus I question if he is only after sex with me.

Being in a relationship is meant to make life better, easier, happier. Your partner is meant to make you feel great about yourself.

This man is messing with your head, trying to play up your insecurities and doesn’t sound like he’s making you happy.

The longer you’re with him letting him sap your energy and chipping away at your self esteem the worse you’ll feel and the longer it’ll be before you’re open to finding someone wonderful to share your life with who cherishes you and makes you feel secure, supported, desired and special.

For the sake of your future self, please ditch him, properly, and raise your standards of acceptable behaviour for next time