So I was going to post in the legal section but I thought I would find more people who may have been through a similar situation as I on here.
Ex and I were together 6 years, he was extremely abusive emotionally. Pushed me into getting cosmetic surgery, stopped me from eating, told me I was worthless, threatened to push me down the stairs, sexually assaulted me the list goes on. After one of these assaults I become pregnant with my beautiful dd who is now 19 months. After he started being abusive to her (yelling, calling her a paki, little shit, threatening to hit her unless she shut up, wouldn't allow her to drink any liquids unless it was water even if she become dehydrated, wouldn't allow her to eat even if hungry for more food.. it goes on. Some of which I have documented on mumsnet and women's aid) I left him as I refused for her to live the life I had.
Now we are in court for access, obviously I'm saying only supervised access and he needs to sort out and rectify his issues. But the courts aren't even yet considering doing a section 7 report, I have given them 21 allegations, allegations which my ex says while they did happen are dramatised. So now dd is going to have some supervised session with exp and next month they want to discuss unsupervised access
. I have evidence and witness reports to his abusive behaviour, I have my threads on mumsnet from last year, ex saying these things happened and have reported it to ss so how can the courts not even think about doing an s7 or fact finding? Has anyone else had something similar happen to them ? I thought the court was there to do what's in the best interests of the child. Now I'm worried for my dd.
On top of that he is insisting with the courts that we coparent. In other words just wants to bully me further.