This is a long one so I apologise but it’s about my in laws.
My sister in law has always treated us badly, even when in contact with her she used us for money, free babysitting and not to do the school runs.
When I lost a multiple pregnancy at 33 weeks, she hounded my DH the day I lost them whilst he was visiting me at hostipal for money.
On the day of their funeral she rang my DH and had a go at him for not going round to hers to move some stuff and when he told her what day it was she replied with “oh that I forgot about that.” Just giving you an idea of the type of person she is.
We lived near her, and she decided to up and randomly move out of the blue without saying goodbye to my DC. One has autism so didn’t understand why she had just vanished overnight with their cousins and cried themselves to sleep for a month straight.
She’s upped and moved yet again without telling my children, this time even further away and it’s going to break their hearts AGAIN when I explain they can’t see their cousins at all anymore. (She’s banned us from seeing her DC.)
All whilst this is going on DHs auntie has been encouraging SILs behaviour. She has a disabled child herself and has been messaging another family member saying her child is upset and because she’s disabled they ought to speak to them. Yet she’s activately encouraged my SIL is disown her nephews even though they are perfectly aware my eldest DC has autism and learning difficulties.
I’m just wondering how an earth do I get over this? I’m so angry and hurt, I can’t even talk to her about it as she’s blocked me from everything as she’s been spreading other lies about my DH to people and knows she’s done wrong.
She’s the type to turn up in a year and act like nothings happened to add insult to injury. Sorry if this makes no sense I just need to rant!