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Would you tell his girlfriend?

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Camellashes · 25/05/2020 14:35

Wondering what you would do in this situation.... so basically I had a relationship with a bloke for about 2 years, which ended last year. Since then we chat occasionally on text or whatsapp, always his instigation. For the last week or so he has been in contact, saying he misses me, thinks about me and basically sexting. I responded but not sexually, just replied ancient history but he still continued.

I've since found out that he is seeing someone. Do I tell her what he has been up to, or do I kep quiet and let her find out for herself? I'm sure if he's been texting me there are others.

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CommonFlirtyLooksAboutThirty · 26/05/2020 10:46

Keep out and block. She will find out soon enough

How? Unless someone tells her!

I'd tell her OP. I'd want to be told. What she does with the information is up to her but my conscience would be clear.

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CommonFlirtyLooksAboutThirty · 26/05/2020 10:47

Don't let him (or her) give you the slightest bit of shit though. Block him before you do it,block.hefif she gets the slightest bit blamey towards you.

And this.