ok, so i've got a new man on the scene. as of yet we haven't gone further than kissing. we've slept in the same bed so there was much touching and fondling going on but all innocent and with clothes on. well boxers for him and a tshirt and boy shorts for me if it makes a difference
anyway i really think he could well not be the one cos that's a bit corny but i do think this could end up being something quite serious and i don't want to ruin it.
as of yet i am quite happy to carry on doing what we are doing. it has got a bit heated a few times and usually i'd probably say oh stuff it and go for it, but i've managed to stop myself. i really like him and i want it to be special. i know he won't have a problem with waiting he's that kind of person and i want to make him wait to prove i am serious about all of this.
but just how long should we wait?atm it's not like i'm that bothered by it but i will be at some point and i don't want to give in too soon. it's almost to prove that i can wait iykwim.