Trying to end marriage

[Novemberrain77]

I have told me husband I will get a sofa bed and sleep in the baby's room she is 2. We still keep arguing. He still can't see what he down wrong fro hiding 80grand and I believe there is more . I got upset and threw laundry at him and clipped his shoulder and he said I he was calling police and getting me done for assault. He has been recording me too. But it's all him and the recordibgs is me standing up for myself. I have registered my rights to home as name not on it. We have five kids aged 2,6,8,13,15. He said I should go as his empire he built and he can't afford to start again. The mortgage only has 60 grand left on it. After years o f speaking to me like crap and at time to my older 2 the same they are not his kids. I am done. I know he will kick off when home rights letter comes. Would anyone else put up with it?

What are you arguing about?
How long have you been married?
You know all the assets are yours as well.
They are joint.
Where does he suggest you go with 5 kids?

I would initially contact a few solicitors and see where you would stand upon separation.
Some offer a free half hour some a reduced first meeting.
Get some legal advice and take it from there.
CAB can also be helpful.
Shelter can help you with housing options.

See previous posts. Over the years he has smashed a hole through a door, tipped drawers out of kitchen and pushing bar stools over, calling me names , saying he was going to knock my son out, calling my daughte lanky, refusing to have the snip but moaning about using condoms but ok about me getting sterilised, loses his temper over small things. Then refusing to out my name on house, promising then changing mind. Marriage guidance told him that this has made me I secure and that his wife feels like a skivvy. We were urged to go through finances together and he saw my bank statement but I tell him everything anyway and he refus r to show me his savings. He called me effing nosey a schemer and ruining marriages. He blanker me for nearly 2 days. I didn't back down and found out he has had 80 grand sat there. Then I got upset other week and three laundry at him and he said he will get me done.

Yes I got free half hour and she said we don't have to leave until youngest is 18 and I have just put a claim on house

Try to get evidence of the 80K so he can't hide it.

Well it will show up in his bank account. If has moved it then it will show x

Been married since 2014 been together since 2011