Have not spoken to my Dominnering, manipulative ,downright horrible sister & BIL for 18 months unless l have to.
Bear in mind my sister, her Dh and my brother and his wife do nothing for my mother , never have and haven't seen her for 9 weeks because of the lockdown here in the UK . I go to see to my Mother this morning, the same as l do every morning 24/7/365 days of the year , my Husband comes with me or my daughter does her for me to have a rest twice a week. Today she starts talking about my sister. ' fair play to her she said the Summer wardrobe you picked out for me was lovely'. She starts talking about her to me as if we are bosom Pals. 'I say to her , l don't want to know Mum, l am not interested'. She stops talking about her and a little while later says to me 'you talk so quickly, you used to talk so slowly and kindly now you talk so fast, so gruffly'. I said to her ' l have always talked the same way Mum. I have always talked fast it's because of being a nurse it comes with the job. I have not changed you are picking on me or some reason; She denied doing this and l said 'why are you picking holes in the way l speak Mum , l don't do that to you' she denied it as per. It made me think though, this is the way she is all the time. l am so kind and good to her, l do everything for her. I said to her l am going to fill our car with petrol using your card, this was agreed when she moved to spend lockdown with her friend, we have to travel 32 miles a day since the lockdown to go and see to her and her friend and they are the only place we go to and have been able to go to for 9 weeks, she says. 'How much money is in the pots ?' l say l don't know because my Sister has them , she then asks me 'who pays my Dd for helping out ' and l say 'my sister ' . The fact she didn't say anything nice like, 'yes you must have the petrol money it's not fair for you to be out of pocket' told me she didn't like us having the petrol money. I can't tell you how much this has upset me. My siblings do nothing for her ever.They can't even go and see her or ring her up yet they are God's gift! I am just wondering why she behaves like this towards me .What did l ever do to deserve this treatment.