I am dissatisfied/bored in my marriage

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I've been married 6 years and with my husband for 10 years. We have 2 kids 3 years old and a new baby. I have gained weight and feel all round a bit low about myself. I'm craving attention. From a man. And I don't get it from my husband.

I keep fantasising about having sex with someone else and have been feeling it about someone in particular. Its become a bit silly now where I've made indirect posts i know he will entertain on social media and have private messaged about fitness and weight loss just to get some attention. Its pathetic I know but im so unfulfilled. This man has no clue i want to have secret sex with him the poor bloke probably just wants me to sign up to herbal life but its a real problem

I feel like I just need to have an affair and get it out of my system but obviously I know i can't without the guilt and consequences afterwards :(

How can I get over this. Please help i hate the thoughts they make me feel terrible x

Oh god, don’t shag a HerbaLife MLMBot . It’ll be the postpartum hormones, OP.

Seriously though, have you spoken to your H about this? The feeling unloved/undesired/unwanted by him, I mean, not the wanting to shag the MLM bot bit.

"... I've... a new baby".

Enough said.

Have you talked this through with your husband?

To be fair a new baby and a toddler are not exactly prime sex and lust and romance times for any couple. How are you both getting on other than lack of intimacy?

Leave your husband or focus on your marriage.

Wild fantasies are normal, but if you think you will cross the line, then have the balls to break up with your husband.