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Fucking Bumble's first suggestion was my one who got away

11 replies

YorkorLucas · 17/05/2020 16:32

I've closed it down and turned off my phone to try and rescramble it but nope, still there. I don't want to swipe yes unless he does

I don't really know what happened. He arranged the date but ghosted me the day before. For some reason I just really, really liked him (and he ticked all the boxes).

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MizMoonshine · 17/05/2020 16:54

Swipe right. He either will or won't. You can talk about it if he does and move on if he doesn't.

Blahblahblahzz · 17/05/2020 17:12

Move on. He ghosted you! Complete waste of time.

PicsInRed · 17/05/2020 18:09

The one who got away or some twat who wasted your time?

YorkorLucas · 17/05/2020 18:28

The one who got away or some twat who wasted your time?

Shock

This is true. He did waste my time Shock

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TheresGotToBeMoreToLife · 17/05/2020 19:18

I'd give it another shot.

P1nkHeartLovesCake · 17/05/2020 19:20

He wasn’t the one that got away, he was the wanker who ghosted you the day before the date! He ran away willingly...probably to a better offer

Swipe no, do yourself a favour

Sugartitss · 17/05/2020 19:20

He’s a twat.

Next!

Legallybleachblonde · 17/05/2020 19:31

I think I would still swipe right to see if he does. Feel smug if he does, wait 23 hours and 59 minutes.... then unmatch him :-) seriously, in my experience, these are the ones you should be grateful who got away.

copycopypaste · 17/05/2020 19:51

Why would you even give him a moment of your time. He ghosted you. It's rude and childish, if he wasn't interested the first time round why would you think he is this time?

user1481840227 · 17/05/2020 20:02

He wasn't the one who got away, if you've never even had a date with him then how can you even begin to think about him like that?

If that's what you really think then you also need to realise that you are at serious risk of being hurt badly by this man!

Do not match with him and give him a way in...If he wanted to get in contact again he could find you easily i'm sure.

indemMUND · 18/05/2020 00:00

I had this. A guy who I thought I'd like another chance at popped up out of the blue. I wasted nearly a year of my life attempting my second chance with the idiot, just got used and dropped whenever he felt like it. I finally realised he was better left in the past and cut him dead. If it didn't work out to begin with, it won't now.

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