I'll start.
My husband passed down his old phone too our kids about a year ago because he got an upgrade. I was checking the emails on his phone seeing if the holiday company had been in touch.
Instead I found notifications from a swingers website. At first, I thought spam but I kept on scrolling and it was quite clear it wasn't spam. I could see the date he first signed up (27th April), I can see the email he verified the account that you had to click the link and input a 5 digit code once clicking the link.
I had a look at the profile, the image was a cartoon picture of what should look like me and him. He had filled in what he was into and what he was looking for. That was the part that shocked me the most.
I confronted him, he laughed and said what? I told him what I had found he said it's a spam site and pulled out his phone and pulled up his spam emails and said look. I told him it isn't a spam site, he's registered too it! He said maybe the children had accidentally clicked an email and it signed him up.
I told him, I attempted the site to see what the sign up process is. There is 7 steps. None of the children could accidentally do this. He said he didnt know then but he didn't sign himself or us as a couple up.
He kept calm through all this, and said he doesn't know how it was set up and it wasn't him and I can believe what I want.
I know what I believe, and it definitley ain't the site or our children created you a profile that has your correct age and DOB, our correct area we live in and lists sexual activities you like.
What's the most unbelievable thing a partner has expected you to believe?