Ex wife saying baby is not mine

[MuyBien]

Hi all, me and my ex broke up two months ago. She told me she was dating someone else and then one and a half weeks later she moved him in!

This new guy wasn't new but a very close friend that she has been spending time with over the years and I was under the assumption she was seeing her female friend who was also living there.

I had information passed on to me which are screenshots of conversations. Very informative indeed. The information was the baby was his and not mine. These conversations were between a relative of this guy and this person's friend. It was disgusting to read and I was in a world of pain.

I quickly did a paternity test and found out the baby was mine!!! To tell you I was worried would be an understatement as I love my child so much. My child is still young.

As far as I know my ex is lying to this guy and his family about the baby being his.

I don't understand what she is doing because this is sick. I'm just waiting for her to tell me the baby is not mine.

Forgot to say clearly she has been cheating for a long time.

If she’s been cheating for a long time she probably doesn’t know whether you are the father or not. But you do. She’s saying he is as it suits her. As a side note, I was that child and it’s done me a huge amount of damage.
Make sure your child grows up knowing the truth.

you might also want to get advice from your solicitor re a Prohibited Steps order.....so she can't move the children out of the area far away from you under any kind of excuse.

You know your only option really is to go via the courts to get a contact order for your children - perhaps also with powers attached so if she ignores the court order you can have her arrested.

I'd also speak with Social Services, it doesn't sound like she's mentally well because she isn't putting the safety and wellbeing of her children first.
Your children have had no time to adjust to their family being broken up and there she is moving a complete stranger (to them) in.
What if he's a paedo? Or an abuser?
Who's looking out for the emotional and mental health of your children when you're only 'allowed' to see them briefly - and she's playing with their feelings?

If you can get a prohibited steps order and also apply for 50/50 shared residence of YOUR children....and you do it asap....then you're in a stronger position to look out for and after your children.