So long story short, since lockdown I’ve noticed he’s been very private with his phone. I hadn’t looked on there for a good few years (we’ve been together for 5 yrs). Around a week ago I decided to have a look so I put in his password and found he had been adding girls on Facebook (the girl
Who took his virginity also!) and he had added and liked a girls pictures (she’d sent him dirty pics in the past before we were together). Obviously I was upset but he talked it down to being only a like so I said for him to delete her off Facebook. I also saw on his search history he had searched for a girl in particular back in December (I’ve never heard of her) randomly and blocked her. I remember my OH staying out the night some time In December and said he’d stayed at a mates but it didn’t add up. I messaged this girl off an account with a different name and politely asked how she knew him. She ignored my message and went on to message my OH on Facebook a screenshot and the ‘?’ I then messaged her back and put a question mark to which she said ‘who even are you’ she then writ again ‘I don’t fucking know him’ and she sent a screen shot of his Facebook saying ‘him?’ I said yes and she said ‘you must be the baby mom then’ I replied I thought you didn’t know him? (He has no pictures of kids or anything on his page) she then said ‘just go away you silly girl’ with a lot of laughing faces. Since then he’s changed his phone password and is getting a lot of texts. I vaguely saw one there was about 10 messages in a row off someone and he quickly replied and deleted the messages. He’s just announced tonight that he’s going to see his friend outside for a bit on the weekend (he told me they weren’t really speaking last week). I said we should be socially distancing and he said he would. I said well you can bring him here if you want into the garden to which he got all flustered and said no we’re going for a walk. He’s also just got a new phone coming tomorrow with a new SIM card... ? Am I being crazy?? He keeps hiding his phone, he’s been avoiding me since I text her. Earlier he went outside in the garden on his phone (it’s quite cold) for about half an hour texting. This was after he announced his plans.