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He's not interested/forget about him or it's all moot in lockdown?

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KatDubs261 · 11/05/2020 17:53

I finally asked out a guy I liked for a while (more of an acquaintance in our mutual group) and he said yes/we started making plans.

This lockdown literally happened and that was that. We then talked most days for a month and I suppose it was a bit intense too soon, but these are strange times and I enjoyed hearing from him.

Well about 2 weeks ago he asked how I was doing and actually I wasnt doing so well as my cousin & partner found out they had covid. I didnt go into a sob story, just stated the facts. Well he hasnt replied since!

We had a fleeting interaction on our mutual whatsapp group, fairly light hearted but that's all. I know I shouldn't care about something that hasnt even got off the ground, what do you think? He just lost interest and I should forget about him? Or just cool it and see what happens after this dies down?

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KatDubs261 · 12/05/2020 13:26

I dont think he is a narc as I've met a few of them. He is generally a fairly generous person in the time I've known him.

The mental health stuff he posted was in support of a male mental health charity and I know it is something he struggles with from time to time.

At the end of the day we probably would have got to go on our date if the pandemic hadn't struck.

Maybe he wasnt happy about not hearing from me but i was struggling a lot that week. Either way I think moving on is the best forward. I'll probably hear from him again.

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