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truma34act · 11/05/2020 14:33

I'm married but not living with my in laws. my husband comes to see me, but he doesn't stay with me, for past few days I'm very upset alots of thinkings coming in my mind. i don't understand what should i do

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Wolfiefan · 11/05/2020 14:35

About what? How long have you been married?

merryhouse · 11/05/2020 15:05

What reason does your husband have for staying with his parents? Is it a lockdown thing, a financial thing, a family argument thing?

Is he from a community where living with parents after marriage might be expected? (you phrased it as "I'm not living with my in-laws" which isn't the way most of us would approach the issue) Are you from a different community? Is this considered a problem?

Have you begun to suspect that he's not simply staying with his parents but seeing someone else?

hellsbellsmelons · 11/05/2020 15:08

What things are you thinking about?
Why is your DH not living with you?
Do you have DC together?
Are you living on your own?
None of this is normal but you may be from a totally different culture to me and living with parents instead of your wife is normal???

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