For those of us who are living apart from
our partners and NOT manipulating the guidelines/rules and staying away from them, I congratulate you. Well done for being sensible. 
What I don't understand is that we know lockdown won't be forever, and if your relationship is strong, what does it matter if you spend time apart? We all miss that human contact but I'd rather miss that than be infected with Covid! Plus meeting for a walk in the fresh air 2m away from each other is NOT allowed. Mixing households is NOT allowed. Sitting in each other's gardens is still NOT allowed. It really infuriates me that people can't just sit it out.
Those of us who suffer with mental health issues are struggling much harder especially when depression hits or anxiety and you need to be with people to help with that, but still, adhere to the rules and it'll be over soon.