Is it over :( ?

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Together 7 half years, nearly split up November time after I sick way he treating me was always on his pc game and not pulling his weight round house . (27 male) I'm 26. No kids or marriage. Tonight he has made us a dinner and I can tell he just is not enjoying it and it's almost forced, he has been on his phone game all day, then we sit down eat and he still has his headphones on watching YouTube for god sake just dosnt understand, am I being needy? Or just normal want partner actually spend some time at least watch coronation Street with me! He glued his phone and YouTube, I go to bed before him and he on his phone in the bed I do my thing he watches his stuff... Jsut making me question are we over? Do still love him and have a laugh but part me thinks this will be my life forever and maybe want more? Someone actually engages/ wants watch TV me?? He said tonight when I asked him take his headphones off and watch telly me just stormed off moaned me saying he wants do he wants before goes back to work tomorrow... What point going out then ?? Not looking good 😞 X please help not sure what to do/ think I just feel upset and hurt

OP I'm so sorry, but it seems like he doesn't have any interest in you or your feelings. Who owns the home, how are you fixed financially? I'd get your ducks in a row and move on, you deserve so much better.

He doesn't seem interested in the slightest and to sit at dinner with headphones on is just rude.
You're seeking more and worth more than this.

OP you are very young and you deserve a lot better than this. There is a whole world out there, it shouldn't be this hard. You are lucky you have no ties. It will take time but you will get over it xx

I know just don't know what to do I still like him and don't want to leave, and we rent so it's nothing to tie me here, but don't want leave if still like him 😭 don't know what to do :( X

Do you want to be tied to him in 10 years, small kids, a mortgage and a man who doesn't engage?...

Oh god why are your standards so low!

Hey,
Of course a break up seems impossible and I am sure you think you love him but this isn't love. This relationship sounds miserable. Why don't you use the lock-down to get your ducks in a row and prepare yourself for seperating after the lock down.
Honestly you'll be relieved and it will hurt but it will be so much better leaving him. He is not worth you time.

Can people be a little kinder to the OP? Jeez she's only 26 and been with her bf for a while. When I was that age it wasn't easy if they are your first love. Rather than be judgemental perhaps offer advice.