Opinion67
Needing opinions! My son has been dating a girl since Jan. She is 21 & he is 24... both still live at home. They have previously gotten into some pretty serious altercations at my home with screaming, cussing & pushing. It’s usually because she’s drinking. They had a pretty bad fight a few weeks ago & I said she is no longer allowed at my house... my nerves can’t take all the drama of it...a few times they have drug me in the middle of their arguments. Now, he has come to me & told me she is pregnant... (8 weeks) I told him I would allow her back because he kept asking me.. so I gave in considering the circumstances. Now she tells him that she does like like my husband & me because she wasn’t allowed over here & doesn’t feel welcomed...& is refusing to come back. I’ve told my son to ask her to sit down & talk with me so we can work this out, she’s telling him she will talk to me but has never made a plan to do so. When I try... he says she’s sick & not feeling well. They are planning on getting their own place soon before the baby comes.. I’m afraid I’ll never see this grandchild & I'm not sure what else I can do to try & work this out with her. I’m at a loss... but I feel like I did what I had to do for my own health.
I’m just looking for others opinion on what else I should try... a baby is supposed to be a happy time for grandparents... but With this situation & how she’s being towards me...makes it difficult to get excited! Do I keep trying or just let it go & hope for the best? I’m at a loss for what I should or need do...if anything