What actually happens to narcs in the end

[cyclemania]

I'm so tired and worn down by EXH bombarding with useless information daily. Sometimes more than once. Don't I know that he'll always drive in the future, I should let him read people, no need to ask him for proof about anything because he KNOWS KNOWS KNOWS. I'm about to lose my mind with it.

What do you think happens in the end, really? I have had to get the police involved as his messages have escalated to threats of physical violence (he has run me off the road before, even though I had a non molestation order) so I am scared.

I don't mean just him - what actually happens to narcs in the end?

[TorkTorkBam]

No no no. Wrong question. Narcs make it all about them. They need you to make it all about them. Here you are calling him an ex yet still letting him make your life revolve around him. Stop! You win with the narc when you have absolutely no fucking clue what has happened to him lately. He is out of your headspace.

Those texts are intrusive. Block him.

[LexMitior]

@TorkTorkBam has it! Make him irrelevant.

But chiefly, narcs end up with duplicate slaves as far as possible. They might be alone, but mostly they are very good at getting a suitably kind (and if at all possible very needy) partner to help them until death.

No joke on the death thing. They die without attention. A real narc will always have someone to feast on, and forever.

Be glad it’s not you.