I met my bf whilst he was still in a relationship, long story short his ex was also seeing someone new and had been seeing him before me and my bf started anything. She took a year to leave the home they shared as they have a child and she said she needed to save etc. She continued seeing the guy and me and my bf continued seeing each other. She moved out 7 months ago lied to his family who sided with her saying she wasn’t seeing anyone, so they then took the pity approach. (Even tho there was proof in form of cards etc from guy). My bfs family are disgusting towards me, we hv been made out the bad guys whilst his mother continues to feel sorry for his ex ( even tho she is now with said guy) His family point blank ignore me infront of his child causing an atmosphere, his sister has called me a homewrecker even tho she didn’t know the full story. We live 50 miles apart see each other twice a week, atm I am at a low point and because he doesn’t understand or take any accountability for any part in how I feel he tells me to ‘get a hobby’ or ‘ stop being a knob’ everytime I try to voice my opinions or views I am made to feel I’m not allowed. He gets angry puts the phone down on me then will ignore me for hours. There’s lots of things that have happened in the last 2 years that have been disrespectful to me ie.. He has still continued playing happy families with her at times. It’s been 2 years 4 months and I feel like the way he is treating me is getting worse I feel like he doesn’t care or respect my feelings.