Been with my DP for 2 years and we’re expecting our first child in a couple of months.
He has always been very needy! To the point I thought he was love bombing me at first but come to realise this is just his personality. He constantly wants my attention, always blowing me kisses every f**in time I walk past him or stand up to walk into the kitchen, saying I love you constantly and after most sentences always wanting to hold hands when we are just waking into the supermarket it’s goes on and on. I’ve been spending time alone in the bedroom to get away from him and all this and he will still send me messages from downstairs of pictures of himself or the dog or what he’s eating. If I’m sitting reading or watching tv he will try to get my attention by talking to the dog saying things to make me try and look over.
It’s got to the point where my heart sinks when I hear his keys in the door coming home from work. I can’t take neediness anymore I need space and I can imagine when the baby is here I’m going to feel worse. I’ve started to ignore his constant messages and love you’s throughout the day and don’t let him know when I’m awake because as soon as I message him he calls me! I have dreams of running away from him and I’m thinking of leaving once the baby is here... this would be too much for anyone right?