So a few years ago I caught my (now) husband messaging other women, we were going through a bit of a bad patch so I forgave him but I've always had it in the back of my mind and he's always been very private/protective of his phone since but I put this down to me having gone through his phone previously...
so fast forward to this morning, he's got a spare laptop from work that he just uses in the evenings and I asked if I could have the password so I could use it from time to time, he gave me the password but then said oh I need to just close my game and actually I'll just set you up your own log in, I've gone onto the laptop now and gone to log in as him rather than my new log in he set up and he's also changed his password... I feel physically sick as I know he's hiding something but what do I do? Ask him? Or do I need to see if I can find anything else first? 