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TTC after miscarriage - DH performance anxiety

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Tulip292 · 25/04/2020 17:12

Hi,

First post here - sorry if it’s not in the right place!

I had a missed miscarriage (first baby) at the end of February with surgical management. DH and I have decided to ttc again as we desperately want to start a family but my husband is struggling with ED recently.

I’ve tried to keep my cycle tracking him from him this month to reduce the pressure on him but he seems to be affected each time we have sex.

I’m desperately trying to stay relaxed and be patient with him but inside I just want to break down and cry!

We had a chat about it and he said he’s afraid of the same thing happening again, and I asked if he really felt ready to try again - to which he replied yes.

Has anyone else had this issue and if so do you have any advice?

Thanks!

OP posts:
category12 · 25/04/2020 18:14

Maybe he could consider viagra to help him over the anxiety hurdle, then he can be confident he's not going to lose it?

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