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Leave my husband in a lockdown?

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mumof2under2sohelpmegod · 24/04/2020 00:58

I'm thinking of leaving my husband but I don't have the balls and were in a lockdown, feeling so trapped and alone. I have two small children and it'll be so hard but I'm living in a permanent sense of stress, tension, anxiety and the rows are horrific. This is nothing new to be honest, having children together has raised every issue we've ever had (his being an alcohol abuser and trauma from his upbringing) and since Christmas really it's been extremely bad!
I'm praying, like every day how to dig deep and be more Christian and patient and forgiving but it's not working. Do I sacrifice happiness?

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Cherrysoup · 24/04/2020 01:01

No, you won’t be sacrificing happiness by leaving him, you’ll be finding it.

mumof2under2sohelpmegod · 24/04/2020 01:02

I mean sacrifice to stay, for the children and to avoid a divorce?

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mumof2under2sohelpmegod · 24/04/2020 01:04

Like I'm scared, of bloody everything and I don't want to but I think I have to leave him, I genuinely feel I've tried my daaaaaam hardest and more, and to other people my reasons may seem small, but just don't think I have the energy to try anymore.
Are there genuine success stories of people going through years of shit and coming out the other side? If so please share!!

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