So...husband of 20 years: 1, child (with SEN):1
We've had ups and downs for many years. He is quite controlling (has control of all finances, had to stop work to HE our child 5 years, we haven't got joint account) and very difficult (once asked if I realized how useless I was for exemple) but not a bad husband. I told him I want to see a counsellor because when I speak about splitting he tells me I shall be a rich widow but doesn't hear the important part (split) . He makes efforts....but I don't think I love him any more.....I feel stuck as he has control over all savings etc...
Feel really stuck, would really appreciate any idea or advice. Thank you