I was with my abusive ex boyfriend for four years. It was mainly verbal/mental/emotional abuse but there was some physical abuse.
Fast forward 6 years: I am happily married with a baby on the way, he is with his girlfriend for the last couple of years and they have a baby daughter.
I can’t stop thinking about whether his new GF knows anything about his past. Has he told her what our relationship was like, and if so does it not bother her? Or has he never told her what he was really like? I hadn’t thought about this for a while until they had a baby a few months ago, and now I can’t get it out of my head. Does he not think about how he treated me, and imagine someone treating his own daughter the same? Does he not feel ashamed? He has never said sorry to me, just acted like nothing ever happened.
I know there’s nothing I can do, it’s not like I’m going to get in touch with her now and be like oh by the way here’s all the shitty things your boyfriend did to me over 4 years. I guess I just wanted to get this out as it’s been playing on my mind recently.