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My mother dosnt like any of my posts

33 replies

Deelou · 20/04/2020 11:40

Rite well mite sound a bit pathetic but what would anyone else think if there mother didn’t like any of there posts or pics of her grandkids on Facebook but likes and comments on everyone else’s stuff?

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Chiyo666 · 20/04/2020 18:05

Seriously?

Chillicheese123 · 20/04/2020 18:11

So I could email family in other countries etc, play Club Penguin and Barbie online and other online. My nieces and nephews have them in yr5/6 also to have Apple ID for iPads and phones, to do school work, Skype with friends etc.

GoldenGapYear · 21/04/2020 10:48

The fact she does it to others is weird but otherwise that sounds like me. I don't like or comment on ANYTHING by ANYONE that way people can't get petty that I didn't like their post when I didn't see it. Most of my feed is flooded with ads or updates from liked pages so I do miss alot and I got sick of people giving me grief over not "liking" their post on social media like it was their life I was offending. It's only social media and I hate it as is so I just stopped. I don't like or comment on anyones anything, my kids, family or other... No one.

But if she's liking others and just not yours I'd probably restrict her from seeing posts. I don't post pics of anyone on mine, it's one of the reasons I dislike social media, people posting photos of others, including their kids, that the subject may not even want online. But if it's important to you then just stop her seeing your posts in future.

ScrapThatThen · 21/04/2020 10:55

She's clearly unfollowed you. I often snooze my mum for 30 days because she is lovely but her posts annoy me. But if everything else is good this isn't a big deal.

Livandme · 21/04/2020 11:29

It would upset me too but my mum isn't on social media. I know she adores my children and is pleased that her friends have grandchildren they can take pleasure in too.

I have a friend that never liked any of my posts on any form of social media, despite liking lots of mutual friends things. I was quite hurt but found I'm not as important to her as I thought / hoped.
I just got rid of her off my social media and tbh she probably hasn't noticed. No plans to see her obviously so overall no loss!

Greydove28 · 21/04/2020 18:25

Op i would just ask your mum about it.

wobblywinelover · 21/04/2020 19:54

I'd be annoyed too OP. So many nasty comments on here saying it's only FB etc but some of these behaviours deliberately not liking stuff can be true to something toxic going on. I had similar with a 'friend' who couldn't get enough of me at first, she used to like and comment on everything, and then stopped out of the blue, like a switch had been turned on. She was private messaging me all sorts of crap, trying to stir the shit and I had to block her in the end. I posted something similar about it on here and got the same sort of responses you did, but in the end it turned out there WAS a reason for it. So you have two choices, either confront your mum about it, or put her on restricted so she can't see your posts. I think it's a bit of a red flag if she's being over the top with other people's posts, it's a deliberate exclusion of you. Does she make you feel like that in real life too? It's obviously irked you enough to post about it, as you are the person who can see the big picture. Ignore the people with their belittling comments

Gobbycop · 21/04/2020 20:18

I wouldn't give a fuck.

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