Dh and I have 3 dc. Dh has a long term health condition and I have been providing care mainly with dressing and personal care. dh is now shieling so doesn't leave the house so has no close contact with dc unless thry srr btinging him stuff. I am doing everything for everyone st the Moment. Teowof the dc hsve dome additional needd.s and home schooling has been especially tough.
I am also of course prrparing all meals and cleaning up ertc.etc. this is no mean feat as often I havd to cook 3 or 4 different thing. 2 dc have ARFID And dh will request something different to the family meal I cook for dc2 and me. Dh also requests snacks and drinks etc.
He is a grumpy ill person although I suppose he has always been bsd tempered at times. Many times I have contemplated leaving but never did.
anyway the latest episode. As usual dh went upstairs to watch tv once he hsd eaten the dinner I prepared. He cannot carry things up so will normally get one of the kids to do it. we later setyled doen yo play a board game with music on. He shouted down for a drink. I srnt youngest up not realising he was cross as he had bern cslling us for sn hour. Ds2 csme down crying. Ds1 who suffers from anxiety was clestly upset too. I comforted them sn put dh straight. He later apologiseapologiseded to ds2 but the damage was done.
he has slso been quite mean to me whilst I am trying to help him. On kne occasion he shouted I font csre sbout your fucking piles when I was empathasing with him.
He slso cslled me his slave to a work colleague on a skype call when I carried up a drink.
I know this isvfsirly low level stuff but I am fed up but I feel trapped.
any sdvice appreciated please.