Sex injury

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I've just finished sex with DH, we're coming to the finale and he has slipped out. And upon re-entry has mis aimed and hit the area of flesh that google tells me is called the perineum.

At the time apart from feeling the impact it didn't cause any real pain. He got back to it and finished the job.

However very shortly after the post sex hum I could feel a burning sting.

I thought it may have had something to do with freshly shaved skin and sex so jumped in the shower to wash.

Holy fuck it hurt. I've had a look in the mirror and it looks like there is a small tear.

Does anyone know how long it will take to heal?
Is there anything I should do/don't do?
And when can I have sex again? We've just got it back and I don't want to see it go again.

Sit in a salt bath. The area will be bruised, as well as the tear, so you'll need to abstain until it heals. Ibuprofen and possibly some arnica tablets uf you have any.

Ooooh ouch. This happened to my friend. She had a huge tear and her boyfriend snapped his banjo. Ouch all round!

Thank you. Is that any particular type of salt?

I don't think I need pain relief, it's not that bad. It was just when I decided to put some soap there. I will not be trying that again.

Oooooo luckily the year isn't that bad.
DH did just say he was in some discomfort.

I haven't told him yet. Don't want him getting any stupid ideas like he should be more gentle.

Itll take a while, a few weeks, to stop stinging when you pee. And you might even be left with a little scar.
A friend told me....

I regularly get small tears there hun , usually 2-3 days to heal . Find a few other ways to occupy you both in the meantime gl with your streak.

@TripleTroubleTime Holy shit I just peed for the first time. Am I going to die?

I was so so happy with getting our sex life back. It was really good as well!
I was going to offer other alternatives but if I keep pissing the fires of Mordor he can shove it.

Try Drapolene. It’s very soothing and I find it speeds up the healing process. Other nappy rash creams could do the trick.

You need to jet stream your wee to keep it away from the sore bit.

I get tears a lot they sting horrendously for about 24 hours sometimes 2 days but then they very quickly heal. Seems to be fine after a few days a week max; the skin down there is fab at self healing. Try pouring a cup of water down at the same time as you wee to take the acid away a bit but I'm sure the peeing sensation wont last too long 🤞

I had an episiotomy on DC1, a tear on DC2 and a tear and 'graze' on DC3.

The graze was the most painful thing I've ever had to deal with. The acid in wee made going to the loo so incredibly painful.
I nearly genuinely passed out one day, black spots floating in front of my eyes.

I started getting into the shower and weeing with the hose down below diluting my urine.
The health nurse advised me to drink lots of water so that the urine would be less concentrated and therefore less acidic.

It took about six weeks to heal and was horrific. My stitches were an absolute walk in the park in comparison.

I used to also wee, with my hands on the floor, like doing a handstand to direct the stream of urine away from the graze too.

You have my sympathies

Don't want him getting any stupid ideas like he should be more gentle.