This is so pathetic but not sure how to handle.
This morning early husband is trying to order online, constant frustration with him but won’t ask for help. We had agreed that we would have a walk every morning and also I had said that I didn’t want to have to be the ‘cheerleader’ during this lockdown.
I said shall we go for our walk as I’m standing around waiting for him at our usual time. He chucks iPad on bed, ‘if I have to..blah blah’ I said you don’t have to and I certainly don’t want to go out for a walk with a ‘Kevin’.
I go out for a jog and come back totally fine as it’s all stupid BUT he’s now sulking. I said you don’t have to be like this and how long is this going to last? He said ‘tomorrow’ !
He’s able to go out as he’s developing a house round the corner, on his own, so he stomps out. I call his name twice but he doesn’t turn round.
Right - the nub of all this is - I generally take him round a roll at lunchtime but I obviously don’t want to. Completely pathetic I know but I just can’t stand this childish behaviour and I just don’t like him at the moment.
Options: I am the bigger person and just take it round anyway ignoring his behaviour. But why should I bloody ignore it. He never apologises and I think he will then think he’s justified.
Don’t go round and this just goes on...
Go round, take the bloody roll, but say don’t think I’m rewarding bad behaviour but just I want to be the bigger person.
Challenge is that generally after a day or so he then just wants to carry on as if nothing has happened and by then I hate him.
I have 4 hours to RollGate??!