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Do you think I'm annoying him?

35 replies

borislovesme · 15/04/2020 09:03

My ex started messaging again in feb after blocking him after we broke up.
We now text every day but some days it's like he wants to chat all the time.
Other days it's like he can't be bothered with me.
Yesterday was one of those days.
I text him last night and he replied.
We had a short conversation and he didn't reply to my last text.
He read it 6 am and is now up but just ignored it.
Do you think I'm annoying him?
Shall I text him now?
Or wait till he texts me?

OP posts:
Enough4me · 15/04/2020 10:49

He is quite clearly annoying you, so you block him.

Windmillwhirl · 15/04/2020 10:50

The inconsistency of his messages shows he is not that bothered. Please take the advice here and work on yourself. You are a puppet on a string he can play with when he wants. Raise the bar and want better for yourself.

Interestedwoman · 15/04/2020 11:06

He didn't deserve you talking to him again.

Now he's acting like he doesn't care about you IMHO.

Perhaps explain to him how his actions make you feel. If he carries on like it, you have a choice whether you block him or not.

If you blocked again, you'd feel more in control.

Menora · 15/04/2020 11:25

This is like emotional ping pong but only 1 of you is actually being hurt by it. You need to block and move on I think
He’s probably just bored unfortunately

Sn0tnose · 15/04/2020 11:36

He’s using you when he’s bored. On the days he doesn’t text you, or ignores your texts, he’s found something better to do.

This man is not good for you.

JorisBonson · 15/04/2020 11:36

You have literally been posting about this waste of space for months.

He doesn't want to be with you. He is a wanker. You need to stop engaging with him.

SandyY2K · 15/04/2020 12:05

Just block him and move on.

ErickBroch · 15/04/2020 12:48

I say this in the nicest way but seriously you need some self-respect for your own wellbeing! Stop texting him whenever he wants! Flowers

Glitterb · 15/04/2020 12:57

Sounds like he is texting other woman and texts you when he isn’t getting attention from anyone else. Don’t let him, remember he is an ex for a reason!

Giganticshark · 15/04/2020 15:18

Sounds like this is doing your mental health no good. Block him. Ignore him. You'll feel loads better.
What possible outcome will all this achieve?

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