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17 years after divorce

19 replies

MyWitzEnd · 14/04/2020 20:25

So we divorced 17 yrs ago. Split to sort things and a new woman moved in. For the last month ive dreamt random stuff but i was with him. Odd but we have three adult kids so hes always been in the background. So i just found that issues jave been in his marriage in the same time frame. Should i move in on him?

OP posts:
RainbowCookie7 · 14/04/2020 20:27

No, didn't work out the first time so how will it work out this time?

champagneandfromage50 · 14/04/2020 20:37

is this a joke?

thebridgelooksbroken · 14/04/2020 20:46
Hmm

move in on him?!

Interestedwoman · 14/04/2020 21:02

Wait till he's single.

If a new woman was able to get involved, he can't have been committed sorting things out btw.

Miraclescometrue · 14/04/2020 21:03

17 years later?!

Elieza · 14/04/2020 21:27

He needs to be single for a while before dating to get his head together. (Although most guys don’t seem to bother with that stage as they want a shag).
Why do you think there would be hope for you both this time? Could it be that you’ve just never found a special someone and he’s better than nowt, the devil you know and all that?
Might be worth a shot. But then again you may be wasting your time.

BumbleBeee69 · 14/04/2020 21:35

Hell nooooooo

Original poster
MyWitzEnd · 15/04/2020 13:51

Well we should never have divorced really. We separated, and she was straight in there the next day. I just don't get why I dream about him every single night.

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GinNotGym19 · 15/04/2020 13:57

Please don’t you’d regret this!
It might just be lockdown fever getting to you 😂

pinkblanchmange · 15/04/2020 14:01

Sounds like you want revenge on the ow

Washyourhandsyoufilthyanimal · 15/04/2020 14:02

Wow. No.

Mycatismadeofstringcheese · 15/04/2020 14:05

Why are you blaming her for “being straight in there”? Did he not invite her in (and allow her to stay for 17 years)?
Does he not have any agency of his own?

Original poster
MyWitzEnd · 16/04/2020 17:53

@Mycatismadeofstringcheese not as simple as that

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SeriouslySoDoneIn · 16/04/2020 17:57

So you’re not over him and now he’s got marriage trouble you want to try and have an affair with him?

Chochito · 16/04/2020 17:59

I think it's a Corona dream. We've all had some weird ones.

SandyY2K · 16/04/2020 18:06

So he got with someone within a short time of you spliting up?

Unless he divorces, it's best to stay as you are.

You seem to say she moved in, as though he had no choice in the matter.

LaurieFairyCake · 16/04/2020 18:08

I've fucked Boris Johnson twice this week

Plus I've gone for a 12 mile run

Dreams are funny 😁

goldpartyhat · 16/04/2020 18:25

What a very strange post!

PicsInRed · 16/04/2020 19:41

Have a long walk each day and hopefully sleep better. Try for a week and see how you go - this is surely delirium and cabin madness talking.

Don't hit on your 17 years exh. That's such bad business it's Enron.

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