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No interest in proposal

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RandomMoth · 13/04/2020 23:37

I have been with DP for a few years now and very much would like to be engaged. My problem - he is not someone who plans or arranges anything. I could sit him down tomorrow and I think he'd agree, but I wouldn't feel confident it's what he wants. Do I just sit and wait indefinitely?

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Washyourhandsyoufilthyanimal · 14/04/2020 16:33

@RandomMoth how can he be sure you want to it he asks you!?

Graphista · 14/04/2020 16:55

You say not financially dependent on him which is good but is that likely to continue?

Do you live together? Do you rent or own & if you live together how are finances arranged? Have or plan to have dc? How old are you both?

All crucial questions as the answers for a 20-something wanting babies in near future are very different that for a 50-something divorcee with dc from previous marriage, for example

We need more info really.

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