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Very selfish point of view

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Trearly · 13/04/2020 22:12

I’m sorry in advance - I know this is horrendously selfish and no help at all. But I’m lonely and sad (and have had gin).

I’ve read so many threads on the relationship board recently about faithless men, angry men, useless men, controlling men, selfish men - you get the picture.

It makes me feel so completely despairing and to wonder why my own Dh, who was none of those things (but he was a bit messy - I’ll concede that!) was taken from us so early :(. I don’t for a minute mean to suggest anyone else should be taken - but it just makes me incredibly sad.

I’m sorry - no point to this post, just feeling philosophical and a bit down.

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GertrudeCB · 13/04/2020 22:15
Flowers
Lexie365 · 13/04/2020 22:18

Flowersq

Brahms3rdracket · 13/04/2020 22:19
Flowers
InArrears · 13/04/2020 22:21

So sorry for your loss. Maybe share some of the nice things about your husband here?

BackseatCookers · 13/04/2020 22:23

ThanksThanksThanksThanksThanks

Trearly · 13/04/2020 22:37

Thank you for the flowers and kind responses. I’m very lucky really - have lovely dc and in general I’m doing ok. It’s just that I read some threads and come over all toddlerish and do the “It’s not fair” thing.

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RLEOM · 13/04/2020 22:55

Sadly, death doesn't have favourites, it can take anyone, good or bad, at any time. So sorry for your loss. Flowers

rvby · 13/04/2020 23:07

It's not fair at all OP. It's cruel and absolutely shit. I'm so sorry your DH died Flowers i know that doesn't help but I can only hold your hand and agree with you.

I0NA · 13/04/2020 23:12

Yes you’re right, it’s not fair at all. You should have had a long and happy life together, he should have seen his children grow up and have their own children.

I’m sorry for your loss.

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