Last year I was asked to attend a meeting to help with minutes and I sat next to the guy who was chairing. I’d seen this guy around at work many times but we had never spoken before (work in different departments). I always thought of him as being quite moody and serious (never says hello or smiles).
Well at this meeting, he was a completely different character! We chatted for a bit before the meeting started and he was just so lovely but wouldn’t look me in the eye or directly at me (not sure if that even means anything). I instantly got these feelings for him but I wasn’t sure what they were - it was like I had just been hit by something. There was just something about him. I’m honestly not sure if he felt something too.
Anyway, ONE YEAR on I STILL have these feelings! I have since moved locations so don’t see him around at work, have almost no contact, apart from the odd work related email so I thought that these feelings would disappear. I need/want to forget about him! I think about him almost everyday and I don’t want to anymore!
For context, I am happily married with two children. I’ve not had feelings for any other guy since meeting my husband. This guy is not even my “type” - before the meeting, I wouldn’t have even given him a second glance! But there was just something about him that has me mesmerized.
Please help! Have you ever been through anything like this before? If so, what did you do? Please, no harsh criticism, I already feel awful about having these feelings.