What’s his problem?

[Halli10]

Long story short in September I met a guy who’s in the army, he is good looking, funny, lovely to talk to. He came over a few times after I had split up with my ex and felt completely different, as if I was falling for him. Which sounds funny, but anyway we both agreed we got on really well and it was an instant connection. However because of him being in the army I hardly got to see him, he wouldn’t talk to me for ages, then would randomly message me saying he was busy with work. This went on for months even until now. He hasn’t spoken to me for a month now, no replies not explanation. I understand his job may be stressful and busy, but I would like an answer why he just cuts me off? He will randomly delete me off of social media. I’m confused, as I really could see a future with him, it wasn’t sexual at all either which was nice. He’s just everything I want in a relationship, and for him to cut me off is a bit hurtful. Any advice please?

Well he might already be in a relationship Halli have you seen his social media?

Yes and he’s single as far as I’m aware. Does seem off tho

The attention you give him is an ego boost when he needs it but he doesn’t actually like you very much. If he did he wouldn’t be disrespectfully ignoring you and keeping you hanging on. You need to work on building your confidence so you expect to be treated better.

He’s just not that into you..

He treats you like rubbish, shows zero respect for you, but according to you, "He’s just everything I want in a relationship..." Really?

You seriously need to raise your standards because you deserve a lot better than this. He's fucking you about and you should have blocked him the first time he ghosted you. Move on.

Probably married.
Definitely ntiy.

Draw a line under this one. He's messing you about for whatever reason, (most likely other women on the go / long term relationship).

Why are you putting up with being added/deleted? You need to look elsewhere, this fish stinks.

My guess is he’s probably married or in a LT relationship I’m afraid.
If you looked at my partners social media you’d possibly think he was single and maybe even from mine you might think I was a single parent.
I post mainly pictures of my children and my dogs, can’t remember the last time I posted a picture with my partner. We just don’t do the whole Show tons of affection on social media thing 🤷🏼‍♀️

He's not spoken to you for a month, and he sometimes deletes you from social media.

Don't let anyone treat you that way. Block.