Meet the Other Phone. Protection built in.

Meet the Other Phone.
Protection built in.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

Relationships

Mumsnet has not checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. If you need help urgently or expert advice, please see our domestic violence webguide and/or relationships webguide. Many Mumsnetters experiencing domestic abuse have found this thread helpful: Listen up, everybody

Talk me down please

34 replies

wastedhandbag · 11/04/2020 09:03

I did a stupid thing last night.
I got involved with sexting somebody I had just me over tinder . Didn't send photos despite his best efforts to get me to.
I feel really sleazy and am disgusted with myself.
He told me midway that he lied about his age and was 29 not 44 as he had said !
He seemed really eager , wanted to add me on social media etc and now I'm worried that My messages will be shared or that he will become too full on.
Please talk me down . Am I over reacting to what I did ?what do I do ?
I've never done this before .
I am newly separated .
Thanks

OP posts:
Dontletitbeyou · 11/04/2020 13:48

Yep , guys do this often with multiple women , it’s just a bit of sport , fishing if you like . Don’t give it a second thought , ignore his pleas , he just wants round two .
Ignore , block , and carry on x

2020changedtheworld · 11/04/2020 13:49

Dont answer it. Dont text him.

Fizzysours · 11/04/2020 13:51

If you click on his number in your call log, there should be an option to block it, yes. What a douche bag :(

Lllot5 · 11/04/2020 14:00

Just block him. I’m not remotely tech minded but I know you can do that.

Dery · 11/04/2020 14:04

Also - he completely misled you as to who he was. You owe him nothing. He should back the hell off. If you respond to him, he will probably try to talk you round but this guy is not someone you want in your life.

Lampan · 11/04/2020 14:17

Just block and he will be onto the next one before long. Don’t give him any reasons why you don’t want to engage. It will just give him something to argue against. Block his number and turn your phone off for a few hours. He will soon lost interest.
And remember in future that nobody from online dating is ‘real’ until you have met them a few times and got to know them a bit.

wastedhandbag · 11/04/2020 16:08

I blocked all
Contact now . I feel guilty as he seemed
So sweet and upset but ultimately I know he is a liar.
He did that he had to change his age to get me to talk to Him anddoesnt t see anything wrong with what he did .
Honestly he doesn't come across as well.
Dodged one there .. and I'm off tinder for
Good . Not for me...
Thanks for all your help.

OP posts:
hesgotit · 11/04/2020 16:18

Give yourself a break, it was a few texts 🤷‍♀️

Wine, the work of the devil sometimes 👿, you've probably also got a hangover and the wine fear! You'll be grand tomorrow!

wastedhandbag · 11/04/2020 16:51

Thanks

OP posts:
New posts on this thread. Refresh page
Please create an account

To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.

This thread is closed and is no longer accepting replies. Click here to start a new thread.