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Total change of thought

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inacheeseandpicklesandwhich · 10/04/2020 15:25

Is anyone else feeling the same as me or am I the only now . I don't know what it is but this corona has made me realise I want totally different things out of life from what I have now . I don't know if it's all the spare time I have because I work long shitty hours and don't have two mins for myself or what . But it's made me want to change careers and also my relationship I'm in a long term relationship. Buying a house planning a baby but I feel like I should get out of the relationship because it's not really what I want . I have loved every minute spending time with my daughter . Also every thing is so much fun and happy with out my partner . Also my job I hate it and now realise that I need to give up how much time I'm in work and also that I want to have a change . Money isn't everything. Anyone else feeling like me 😬

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InTheGardenDrinkingTea · 10/04/2020 15:29

No because I was already living the life I wanted to in these respects before all this started having come to a similar realisation several years ago.

I don't think you'll be alone currently though.

The biggest thing will be still having the impetus to make those changes once this has passed.

Elephantonascooter · 10/04/2020 15:34

Yep. Me and dh have basically decided to start our lives again now!
Dh will be taking around a 12k paycut after this as he just isn't happy in his job and will need to start from the bottom in something else.
For ages we've thought the issue was related to my mood when it seems my mood was impacted by his which has been lead by his job.
We will be acting on it after all this is over.

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