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Do I need to stop texting him?

30 replies

pinkflowersr · 08/04/2020 15:03

11 months ago I met a guy through a mutual friend.
We got on great and started dating.
Thought things were going great (he had been a player but thought we had something special )
Then he tells me he just wants to be friends as it's all too much too soon.
We stop speaking for a week.
Continue to text for two months meet up and sleep together.
Then start dating again once again it's going well then he panics and stops it.
That was January.
I said this is pathetic your hurting me.
Done
He blocked me on everything.
3 weeks later he texts apologising for the way he treated me.
Now we have been texting every day since feb.
No talk of meeting up or anything (lockdown not helping )
My head is constantly a mess
I have feelings for him still
I don't know what to do

OP posts:
FlowerArranger · 08/04/2020 20:44

Why are you doing this to yourself?
Where on earth is your self-esteem?!!
Can you put on your big girl's blouse and block this tosser...

I also think you should read Dr Norwood's book.

And The Six Pillars of Self-Esteem by Nathaniel Barden.

Common on @pinkflowersr, you deserve better, so treat yourself better.

MAHTwenty4 · 08/04/2020 20:44

This has got booty call stamped all over it. Been there and felt like you and walked away in the end as it was so one sided. If he had any respect or real caring he would not do this, he's probably been toasted by whoever he was seeing inbetween. Walk away and find someone who will treasure you and be proud to be with you always.

ALovelyBitOfSquirrel · 08/04/2020 21:12

You want a relationship

He wants to have fun and sex

You're incompatible

Spot on. Sorry OP but you deserve better! You'll never meet a good guy if the bad guy is always in the way.

Fedup2020 · 08/04/2020 21:13

Block and move on. He’s using you and is not good for you

BMW6 · 08/04/2020 21:53

OP - reality check.

HE DOESN'T HAVE ANY FEELINGS FOR YOU. HE SAYS THAT TO KEEP YOU ON THE HOOK.

HE IS A PLAYER. ALWAYS HAS BEEN, ALWAYS WILL BE.

DON'T BE A FOOL.

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