If you had a disabled child, and your partner called him, your disabled little son, what would you do? I already have my response and action to take etc...
That disabled child, and the partner involved has seen through three life or death experiences with said child....yet the partner has his own neurological illness, in which, is poorly consultant led (its not an excuse on his side, just trying to place both sides of the issue) without being one sided. If that makes sense) is all a bit of a concern/reason.
Yes I know he adores my child and would never say it to him in person, yet he said it to me, intoxicated, to hurt me, and yet his illness can make him say cruel and nasty things, depending how his brain is functioning...he made that choice regardless of intoxication.
I've made arrangements to do what I need to do tomorrow but if anyone who has a disabled partner, and doesn't have a diaabaled biological father/child can you give me advice.
In context it was said in an argument to hurt me.... Its done more than hurt me and I think he realises that.....yet still he has his own issues l regardless of all my family, that he apparently loved and adored... Like I did his(were blended) he still said it. Do I believe his apology because of his neurological illness, and spur of the moment or walk away. He's never said anything like this before.
(my decision is already made.... I'm just asking for advice because what other people have stated and opinions)